What Others Say

"What Others Say": Paul Clark, Jr. on Notes from Susie

Any good music minister knows that singing forms our faith. Mark Edwards has spent his life helping others engage in that practice, but as his wife, Susie (Honey) and Mark journeyed through their most challenging days they allowed others a window into their own faith journey to find scripture, song, and loving relationship on full display as they faced the predictable highs and lows of a battle with cancer. I was privileged to be one of those peering through the window via Facebook updates and the "Notes from Susie" reflections in this tome. I have treasured friendship with Mark for a long time and worked in the same building with Susie for fifteen years. When I first heard the news of the onset of Susie's illness, I found it hard to find the words to express to my friend the depth of my care. Words of hymns, however, came to mind and heart often and I would send a phrase off in a text message to Mark. Of little surprise, most every time I texted him, Mark would fire another hymn phrase right back. When we talked on the phone, Mark would remind me that Susie and he had determined to "choose joy" through this journey, and choose joy they did. You will see it reflected in these pages, and sense the warmth of Christian fellowship exemplary of what "church" is supposed to be. You will get a glimpse of the love and devotion that defines the Edwards family. Perhaps, like me, you will find renewed resolve to express in word and deed your own love for others, especially your spouse. I hope you will also find the song of deliverance, of courage, of strength, implanted in the heart of Jesus followers. 

- Paul Clark, Jr., Director of Church Music
Tennessee Baptist Convention

"What Others Say": Dr. Penley on Notes From Susie

Attentive physicians learn much by caring for their patients. Susie Edwards taught me much about living with grace. She faced an illness that could have made her angry or bitter, for it robbed her of time with those that she loved. Nonetheless, she possessed an air of quiet dignity and peace that allowed those around her to see that she would not allow cancer to dominate her spirit. Even in the toughest of times, she wore a gentle smile that put others at ease. She taught me that we have the ability to live fully, even when confronting the most difficult of life's circumstances. I am grateful to have known her and miss her very much. 

In the book, Mark's brother Randy writes about the last time that we were all together in my office. We had said just about all the words that needed to be said, and sat quietly for several moments. As I recall, I held her hand -- I had a tear in my eye and a lump in my throat. Randy remarked that he felt the presence of Jesus in that small exam room. I know that God's peace was abundantly present, and it helped us all at that very difficult moment.

Charles Penley, M.D.,
Tennessee Oncology